This week more than any other so far, I really think Joanna looks like Gia. Not so much even in their 10 week comparisons, but as I was editing this photo I just kept thinking it was Gia! Crazy! Sean was really busy with work this week, and had a lot of meetings and extra obligations he had to tend to. We are going stir crazy with the cold weather still lingering about. How dare it stay this long into March! Hoping the next week brings some reprieve and we can finally introduce Joanna to the sun! We are trying to get Joey to take a bottle, but so far haven't had any luck. I need to try to borrow a few different types of bottles to see if there is one she prefers more but we really, really, really want her to be able to take a bottle. Gia never did, and it was quite draining. Literally for 14 months, I was the only source of milk. It got better around 8 months when she was eating enough table foods that she wasn't nursing as much but it would still be really nice to get a break every now and then.
Years ago, I was in a non-fiction reading rut. Maybe it was the years I'd spent in Bible college with my required reading being heaving subjects on Christian Living that had me trapped in the mindset that if I wasn't reading a book with highlighter and pen in hand, I was wasting my time. Or maybe it was just that I hadn't read any good fiction books in years, but whatever the case I hadn't read a book for pleasure in many years. Several friends recommended Francine Rivers' "Redeeming Love" and they even billed it as the best book they'd ever read. Skeptical and with low expectations, I borrowed the book from a friend. Two chapters in, I couldn't put it down. I stayed up well into the early morning hours for several days in a row, devouring this book. So when I saw a new 20th century version was being released, I jumped at the chance to read it again and own the book. Despite the years in between reading and re-reading this book, it still captivated me from the very beginning.
"Redeeming Love" is a re-telling of the Old Testament book of Hosea, only this time the setting is California's gold country in the 1800's. Central to the story is Angel, a beautiful young woman who was sold into prostitution at an early age. She has learned to despise men, selling herself because she knows no other way and feels trapped in her lifestyle. Enter Michael Hosea: a godly man who feels the Lord telling him to marry this harlot whom he barely knows. Though it makes no sense to Michael, he is obedient to God and sets out to woo and marry Angel. This proves to be a difficult task, given the years of walls Angel has built around her. Time and time again, Michael shows his love-- God's love-- for Angel in the way he relentlessly pursues her and cherishes her. This is a beautiful story of love and redemption (hence the title), but even more than that, it is a breathtaking illustration of God's love for us, his wayward children. The parallels between Angel and myself are undeniable. Of course I've never known a life of prostitution, but I have been guilty of abandoning my first love (God) in pursuit of selfish desires. Likewise, the similarities between the character of Michael Hosea and God are beautiful and all-consuming. God is a God who pursues and loves his children, even when we deny and abandon that love.
I highly recommend this book to anyone wanting a good read that will not only entertain but will also speak directly to your heart.
Though I received this book for free from WaterBrook Multnomah Publishing Group for the purposes of this review, the opinions are my own.
So my best friend had a big birthday this year. One of those milestone numbers that make you stop and think about every decade you've lived thus far, and all the people & places that filled the past years. I've of course known this birthday was coming up, and for more than a year, I've been thinking that I wanted to make her a quilt. That is actually the whole reason I asked for the quilting class for my birthday last summer! So its been a long time in the making.
Why a quilt? Well, for many reasons, but the biggest reason is, well, a card just wouldn't do. I wrote about Tracy here and here but to sum it all up, she is my friend of a lifetime. We've spent years as besties, most of it long distance, and while cards are wonderful, I just didn't feel like that would be sufficient for this birthday. Tracy and I have been through so much together. We met when I was still in high school, and I worked for her and her husband at a video store. Little did I know how that summer job I had originally applied for just to keep an eye on my lame boyfriend would shape the rest of my life! We've taken epic road trips, a couple awesome trips to What-Happens-In-Vegas-Stays-In-Vegas, birthdays, weddings, funerals, and babies. Tracy and I found out we were pregnant on the same day!! Me with Whitney and Tracy with her sweet Isabella. That is to-date and will forever be one of my most precious memories in life. In fact, when I'm old and senile, and my memory has long faded, I hope someone will be there to remind me of that day I was standing in my bathroom, looking at my 6 positive pregnancy tests, and Tracy said, "Were your lines like, super dark? Or was one of them kinda faint? Because I just took a test and it has one really faint second line." OMG, awesome. Tracy is the one friend I've had through the years that never gave up on me. After Whitney died, I didn't really talk to anyone but Sean and my parents. But Tracy called Sean nearly every. single. day. Just to check in on me, ask him how I was and to let me know she still cared. Then after a couple weeks when I was ready to talk, we just cried on the phone together. By the way? That's how you help a hurting friend in need. Let them know you are there for them, even when they can't be there to reciprocate.
I spent hours trying to find a quilt pattern and fabric I liked. Tracy said pink and blue where her favorite color combination, but I was worried about going to literal with that, because I didn't want it to look like a baby quilt. I knew I wanted to use a higher quality fabric, like Moda so I pinned a bunch of charm packs. You can see some of the other fabrics I considered on my Pinterest board here. Once I settled on the Scrumptious collection, I set about trying to find a pattern I liked. I finally settled on this disappearing 9 patch pattern. I used this awesome tutorial here. I particularly like this pattern because it is fairly straight forward, simple to piece and there are actually a lot of lay out options.
I was fortunate to have my mom here several times while I was working on this quilt. She helped me decide on the final layout, and I love it!! My mom was also a HUGE help in finishing the top of this quilt. I knew Tracy was coming to visit in less than 2 months, and I had just had Joanna. My mom was here for 3 weeks after Joey was born and she helped me double the size of the quilt top! She is such an accomplished quilter, she whipped it out in no time. I'm so glad she was willing to help me with that, because I really like the finished size of this quilt.
I finished the borders after mom left, and then was left with the dilemma of how to quilt it all together. For the backing, I decided to go with just one patterned fabric. I actually seamed the backing fabric horizontally, as opposed to vertically, and think it turned out just fine. I had great plans for some really intricate straight line quilting, but I just ran out of time. I started the quilting on the Monday before Tracy came on Thursday. So I had to go for something quick. This quilt is quite a bit bigger than my first quilt, so I was a little nervous about manuvering all the layers of fabric in my basic sewing machine. I wanted to try some free motion quilting, but decided now was not the time to try something so new and different that undoubtedly requires practice. I didn't want to mess up all the time and money I'd spent already with messy quilting! I love the look of lots of quilting-- there's nothing better in my book than a really soft, crinkly quilt. So I came across this technique of just sewing random wavy lines. The final verdict?? I LOVE it! I love the wavy line quilting. And if it hadn't been for a misstep with my bobbin tension, I would have had it all finished in a day or so. (I didn't adjust my bobbin tension correctly, so I wound up having to take out and re-do about 1/3 of the quilt! Urg...) This is such a fun and simple method of quilting and it really does look good, I think.
As you can see, I chose to just quilt the same way all over-- nothing special in the borders or anything. I think the softness of the wavy lines helps break up the structured linear-ness (not a word) of the disappearing 9-patch pattern.
Now about the binding... I prefer the look of hand stitching the binding to the back. But again, time. There just wasn't enough of it. So I googled around for a good tutorial on how to machine stitch the binding on. There are a ton of different options for this, and I would up using a combination of several different tutorial methods. Here is the one I liked best. This one suggested using a decorative stitch to finish the binding, something I had never considered. So after a test run on a small fabric sandwich, I decided on this wavy line. Somewhere in my math, however, I messed up and one side of my binding was bigger than the other. Meaning, if you look at the quilt from the back, the binding is about an inch. If you look at it from the front, it is more like an inch and a quarter. That's why the binding appears to ripple a little-- because it does! But I actually think it goes along with the wavy lines. And I actually really like the way it looked on both the front and the back. I didn't get a really close up picture of the back, but the wavy lines go perfectly over both the binding and a teeny part of the backing fabric. You might be able to see that in the second picture above it you look reeealllly close. I chose to use a thread that matched the binding fabric, and I"m so glad I did. I wasn't sure how the teal thread would look on the back, but I think if I had used white thread, it would have looked messy and like a mistake.
One more new-to-me technique that I used on this quilt was a different way of joining the ends of my binding. I was taught to leave a really long tail on either end, the join them on the bias.... etc, etc. I can't really expalin it because I still don't fully understand it. I also did not have enough left over of my binding to use this method that required leaving a 6-10 inch tail. (Oops, darn math again. Why do you think I went to Bible college?) So in my searching for machine binding, I found this awesome tutorial for joining the ends of your binding. The summary even says, "Start and end your binding using a pocket method that requires no math." Sold!! Revolutionary!!! Watch this video, then try it. I was super happy with the result.
Even though Tracy and I hadn't seen each other in person for 5 years (!!!!!!!), we picked right back up where we left off. We talk on the phone several times a week so that helps, but its so good to have a friendship that isn't faded by years and miles. I love my friends here and am so thankful for them, but they all grew up together. They have memories and inside jokes that I"m not part of. It was so great to be with Tracy again and have those inside jokes and secrets to laugh about. We have secrets we'll take to the grave (unless we let them slip when we're old and senile, but then, everyone will just say 'eh, she's old and senile') and inside jokes that can have us rolling with laughter from the utterance of a couple words. (Swoosh! Tree pole dancing. Hee-haw!! Thunder! Old timey photos!) Much like this quilt, our friendship is cozy, woven together with years of love and laughter. And that's why a card just wouldn't do.
Joanna had her two month check up this week! She weighs 10 pounds, 3 ounces and is 23.5 inches long. Although I do think she's long, that measurement might be a little on the exaggerated side. There is one nurse at our ped's office whose measurements always seem to be a bit generous in relation to all the others'. Either way, baby is growing! And miraculously, she is still sleeping 6-8 hours at night routinely. She is starting to get a bit of a flat head in the back, though, from all that time lying down. I'm trying some new positions, like on her side, so that it doesn't get bad. We are doing a delayed vaccine schedule again with her (like we did for Gianna), so she only got the Rotavirus oral vaccine and the singular (not combo) DTaP shot. She didn't seem to have any adverse reactions to either, thankfully! Sunday was the Oscars! One of my favorite days of the year. Joanna was a great companion for watching the Red Carpet stuff. She cooed at all the right dresses. :) Just today, Joanna seems to have discovered her hands!! She held them up in front of her face while I was changing her diaper and just stared at them as she moved them around. She still prefers sucking on her fist as opposed to a pacifier.
This past week, my BFF came to visit! It was a Christmas present from Sean, and the best one ever!! It is hard to believe, but its actually been 5 years since we've seen each other in person. Way, way, way too long. We still talk on the phone several times a week, but life just got busy for both of us, and the miles between us are too great for quick weekend visits. Tracy got in on Thursday, and we went out to Olive Garden for dinner. Sean watched Gia and I took Joey with us. Joey was an angel and slept the entire time! As we were leaving, we got caught in a torrential down pour. It was pretty crazy. Friday we just hung out some more, then Saturday Tracy and I took both girls to see the movie "Frozen." Gia did good, and as long as I let Joey keep nursing, she was pretty good too. Joey has been sleeping and growing great still. She is cooing and smiling at us a lot! Gia was sick on Sunday and a little bit on Monday... it was interesting trying to keep a toddler quarantied from our newborn. Thankfully Sean was able to stay home part of the day and keep her company in the guest room. It was just a sore throat and mild fever that thankfully turned out to be nothing more.
PS- This is Joey's poop face. She flares her nostrils every time!
To be honest, I'm a little behind in posting my weekly pictures so I don't recall anything spectacular from this week in Joey's life. I take the pictures each week, but getting them onto my computer, editing them and posting them is another story! Life is busy with 2 kiddos! Probably more snow, cold, snow, sitr crazy!


This week has been pretty much the same as any other week... we got another downpour of snow. I am so over this winter! Its difficult to find fun things to do. This week was Valentine's Day. Gia was so excited about it! Sean got her a Little Tykes basketball goal, which she LOVES! This week we had a little scare with Joanna- she woke up with what looked like a cold sore on her upper lip. I knew from my time working with infectious diseases that a cold sore could be the herpes virus, and that it is very dangerous & potentially deadly in newborns. I got in immediately with her pediatrician (they opened up after lunch because the snow had them closed that morning. Thankfully our neighbor with a snow plow on his truck helped us get the van out of our driveway so I could go to the hospital. God is good). She couldn't say definitely one way or another what she thought the sore was. She even had the other doctor come in and looked at it, and the consulted with an ID doctor at the Children's Hospital downtown. Since she hadn't had any contact with anyone who'd had a cold sore, we decided to just keep an eye on her and see if it got worse. The treatment for herpes in a baby is weeks in the hospital on IV fluids, which is why she didn't immediately want to jump to that course of action. I nervously watched the spot and thanks to God, it resolved on its own after several days. I'm thinking it might have just been from her pacifier or a scratch from her fingernail. Whatever it was, it is gone but it was a huge scare!!

















